Average length D. Veale, S. Miles et al. Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men / BJU International penis during erection — about 13 cm. Average depth P. B. Pendergrass, C. A. Reeves et al. The shape and dimensions of the human vagina as seen in three-dimensional vinyl polysiloxane casts / Gynecologic and Obstetric Investigation vaginas from the entrance to the cervix — up to 15 cm.
At this size, the penis does not reach the cervix, the pressure on which can be painful. Therefore, the average man and woman do not experience discomfort during sex. But everything changes if the size of the male member exceeds the conditional norm indicated above.
Even taking into account the fact that the vaginal canal is slightly lengthened How Deep Is a Vagina? And 10 Other Things You Should Know / Healthline when aroused, a penis larger than 17 cm can make sex painful for a partner.
Here are a few simple rules that will help you avoid unpleasant sensations and get only pleasure from sex.
Ideally, if the preliminary caresses are such that the girl will experience the first orgasm even before the penis penetrates into the vagina. Kiss, engage in petting , caress your partner's clitoris with your tongue, invite her to masturbate or help her do it using sex toys.
The more excited and relaxed the girl is, the easier penetration will be.
If your partner has a really big dick, natural lubrication will definitely not be enough for you. Remember how hard it can be to put a too tight ring on your finger, and do everything to make sliding as easy as possible. That is, generously lubricate the penis and vagina with a lubricant (preferably water-based) and regularly add a new portion.
Hot penetrating sex in the elevator or on the desktop in a fast format, alas, is not for you. Even with grease.
The partner will need time for the penetration of an unusually large penis to be comfortable. If you act quickly and roughly, you can play up to vaginal tears. And it hurts. So much so that the girl is unlikely to want to repeat the unpleasant experience.
Restrictive penis rings can be found in every adult toy store. This elastic thing is put on the penis and does not allow it to penetrate too deeply. The ring also has an important psychological function: a man does not have to constantly monitor the depth of penetration, which means he will be able to relax.
Rings are different. Pay attention to those that have additional attachments for clitoral stimulation.
This advice applies more to girls. If the partner is nervous and afraid of possible pain, the muscles of her pelvic floor contract, which means that attempts to penetrate the vagina become more difficult and painful. Deep breathing allows you to calm down, relieve tension and relax.
However, a man should also breathe. At least in order to act more carefully and with restraint.
That is, those in which a man will not be able to enter too deeply or a woman will be able to adjust the depth of penetration. These positions are ideal.
The partner lies on his back, the partner "saddles" him from above. Plus of this pose: with his free hands, a man can caress the clitoris to increase the girl's arousal.
Both are lying on their sides, the woman with her back to the man. Slow sex is especially good in this position.
One of the best positions for gentle, gentle sex. The partners are facing each other, so the man will instantly notice if his actions are hurting the girl and stop. The partner, in turn, can find the ideal position by bending or unbending her legs.
A woman lies on her stomach with her legs straightened, a man enters from above. In this position, the vaginal canal lengthens — the more the partner reduces and stretches her legs.
Both are sitting facing each other with their knees bent. Partners can lean on straightened arms or hug tightly. In this position, a man sees the emotions of a girl and can react quickly if she begins to feel discomfort.
Pain is something that cannot be tolerated in sex. Therefore, discuss the conditional sign in advance, after which you immediately stop the intimate game.
As a rule, such a sign is some short, easily pronounced word. For example, in BDSM it is "red" — by analogy with a traffic light signal. But you can agree on another option.
