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How to break out of the framework of ordinary thinking

10 Jun 2023, 00:00, parser
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Don't be afraid of mistakes and failures

Many people think that if they are unsuccessful in something, it means that they are losers in general. When self-esteem is directly related to work, any mistake is perceived as proof of incompetence. But it is precisely this kind of thinking that prevents us from breaking out of the ordinary. If you are not ready to fail, you will not be able to learn from your mistakes and learn something new. And if you don't study, you will never develop and grow.

If you want to succeed faster, you have to double the failure rate. Success lies on the other side of failure.

Thomas Watson
first president of IBM

Failures teach humility. They develop character, help you laugh at your mistakes and not take everything too seriously.

Constantly learn

Most people prefer to spend their free time on entertainment, instead of studying something and doing self-development. This is not surprising, because learning is difficult. Asking for help, improving in your business, constantly failing — all this is not very fun.

Repetition is boring and tedious, which is why so few people master something perfectly. It won't be easy to start learning something, but remember:

  • Every day when you spent time reading, millions of people did not pick up a book.
  • Every morning, when you got up early to work on something and create something, others continued to sleep.
  • Every day, as you move forward, millions of people give up.

Believe that you can achieve what you want

Deep down, most people don't think they have the qualities necessary to succeed. And it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: if you don't believe in yourself, you won't succeed.

No one is ready to become rich until they believe that they can get rich.

Napoleon Hill
author of book "Think and get rich"

When you set your brain to what you want to achieve, it will begin to act in this direction.

Strive for new experience and self-development, not for money and high positions

People are most often unhappy because they do not understand what is valuable in life. Now anyone can be an "expert" or a "director". If you chase only for money and titles, in the end you will come to desolation and longing. The main goals should be learning through experience and personal development.

Success, like happiness, cannot be achieved, it must be born by itself.

Victor Frankl
austrian psychiatrist, psychologist and neurologist

Most people spend their lives chasing the wrong things: money, sex, security, recognition. But all this will not give you what you are striving for. So don't get hung up on high positions and impressing others. Focus on becoming the kind of person you can be proud of.

Envy others less, work on yourself more

Every minute spent on envy is wasted. If you constantly look back at others, you will cease to be yourself. When views and actions diverge, you feel unhappy. Therefore, it is better not to focus on the success of others, but work on yourself.

Learn, experiment, make mistakes, determine what works and what doesn't. Gradually, you will increase the pace and get closer to your goal.

  • Choose success over mediocrity.
  • Choose learning over entertainment.
  • Choose self-development instead of envy.
  • Choose what you want, not what others want.
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