It doesn't really matter who you give pleasure to with your lips and tongue: a man or a woman. It's important how.
Here are simple and at the same time very sensual techniques that will take your oral sex to a new level of pleasure.
Clitoris D. Cordeau, M. Bélanger et al. The assessment of sensory detection thresholds on the perineum and breast compared with control body sites / The Journal of Sexual Medicine and the penis are the most sensitive erogenous zones of the human body. So, imagine that this zone is a lollipop.
Unfolding the tongue as wide as possible, lead it from the base of the "lollipop" to the head. When you reach the top, start licking, caressing it with the tip of your tongue. Then, after playing for a couple of seconds, slowly go down and climb up again, this time wrapping your lips around the head and sucking it a little. Repeat several times until you lick the "lollipop" from all sides.
Wrap your lips around the head of the clitoris or penis and gently pull it into your mouth, while caressing with your tongue. Then release the head and repeat again, only draw in a little more intensively.
Gradually, approach by approach, increase the intensity of suction and make it rhythmic — like frictions during normal sex.
Think of the hand as if it is an extension of the lips and tongue, inextricably linked with them. Caress the clitoris or penis with your mouth and at the same time stroke and squeeze other areas in the perineum in time.
If we are talking about cunnilingus, you can feel the G-spot with one or two fingers and stimulate it with a beckoning movement (as if you are making a "come here" sign with your fingers). During fellatio, it is enough to tightly grasp the penis with the palm of your hand and move your hand synchronously with the movements of the lips and tongue on the head.
With the most tense tongue, slightly bending its tip, caress alternately the area under the head, then the head itself. The sensitivity of these zones is very different, so the partner will receive unusual and powerful sensations.
Before touching your partner's erogenous zones with your tongue and lips, put a piece of ice or a cube of frozen juice in your mouth. You can also try during cunnilingus or blowjob to drink alternately from two cups — with very warm water and cold. The temperature difference will add brightness to the sensations.
Wrap your lips tightly around the head of the penis or clitoris and start making buzzing sounds. It may seem ridiculous, but a small vibration is quite capable of quickly bringing a partner or partner to orgasm. Especially if in the process you will caress the erogenous zones with the tip of your tongue and hands.
You will need a little associative thinking. Imagine if the clitoris or penis is a lipstick with which you are trying to apply makeup generously, and you do it without hands.
Just move your relaxed lips over the head, trying to make it go over their entire surface. Lips can not be limited: try to smear this "lipstick" chin, cheeks, nose.
This technique is not only pleasant, but can also serve as a kind of declaration of love, because it demonstrates: you adore your partner so much that you are ready to "get dirty" in him completely.
Cover the entire area of the perineum with quick, light and gentle kisses, including the testicles in men and the labia in women. This unusual technique of oral sex will become a refined and sincere prelude to subsequent pleasures.
